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How to use a dildo

 

How to use a dildo

Dildo’s are by their very nature replicating and replacing a man’s penis. Shaped and moulded on real penis’ they mimic all of the best parts of having a man, without the annoying parts.

There are many ways to use a dildo - vaginal and anal insertion being the two most common ways. We cover the best ways to use your dildo, and alternatives you may wish to consider.

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Step-By-Step Guide to Using a Dildo

Use our step by step guide, and fun techniques to increase your orgasms by using your dildo in better ways.

  1. Preparation - Clean your dildo. Give it a wipe down, if it’s got a vibrator in it, then check the batteries. Maybe you want to try something new, like warming or cooling your dildo, if so try soaking the dildo in a warm bath of water. Or chilling the toy in the freezer (remove the batteries before doing this). Also grab some tissues for clean up afterward.
  2. Getting in the Mood - Spend a few hours beforehand simply thinking about the orgasm you are going to have. Maybe even set up your bedroom with some candles, scents, low mood lighting, perhaps even a warm bath to relax beforehand. All of these things will set the mood - make it romantic. No one said you can’t romance yourself!
  3. Lubrication - Dildo’s are not like penis’s, and they will absorb some of the natural wetness you might produce internally. If you are using the dildo for regular vaginal sex or anal sex, then you must consider lubrication. We recommend a quality water-based lubricant for use with any of our dildos.
  4. Insertion - Always insert your dildo slowly, never rush. You’re trying to set a good mood, and one of the more enjoyable parts of having sex with yourself is simply taking your time. Of course, you might be sharing a dildo with a friend, in which case you should still take your time to warm up. Insert the tip a few times, in and out and prepare your vagina or anus for full insertions later. We would point out at this time that hygiene is important if you do intend to share your toys.
  5. Using one of the techniques listed below - Familiarize yourself with the various techniques before you start. If you’re unsure what you like, then maybe try them all. We suggest starting gently, and progressing through them to the harder techniques nearer the end if you feel inclined. If you find something that you like, don’t bother trying more things, just keep going. You might try something different next time.

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Dildo Use Techniques

A list of the most common techniques in using a dildo

  • Hard & Fast - Most often seen in porn films, but it is yet to be proven that this is actually enjoyed by many women. Hard and fast is as it sounds, inserting and thrusting of the dildo into the vagina in a strong and deep manner. For many women, this can be painful, but for some, the ones who like hard sex, this is the preferred technique.
  • Medium Pace - This is the most common of all techniques. It replicates regular sex, with a firm insertion depth, and at a medium pace for thrusting. It most closely resembles actual sexual intercourse.
  • Shallow & Gentle - Insertion of the dildo into the vagina is only shallow, sometimes only the head of the dildo is enough for some women. The passing of the dildo head through the lips into the vagina can be the most erotic feeling a woman can have. The dildo is removed and inserted in a slow and gentle manner, with a focus on teasing.
  • Spinning Around - Like the Kylie Minogue song, Spinning Around, this technique is about rotating and spinning the dildo around. It can be hard to do if you are on your own as it requires two hands, and this is why there are machines available that spin the dildo around. Unfortunately, these machines are not yet available in Australia (too bulky to import for a small market). Regardless, spinning the dildo might be something that gets you going, give it a whirl!
  • Rocking the G-Spot - Focus is important with this technique. The tip of the dildo is used to concentrate all attention and pressure on the g-spot. The head of the dildo is firmly pressed on the g-spot and rubbed slowly backwards and forwards.

Of course, there are many things you can use a dildo for in the bedroom, and we have only scratched the surface with the most common ones.

Other Ways to Enjoy Your Dildo

We don’t want to limit you, or restrict the ways in which you can use a dildo because everyone is different. What works for one person might not work for another. Here are some other things to consider, and other ways to enjoy your dildo that we haven’t covered above.

  • Hygiene - As mentioned above, sometimes people like the sensation of a warm or cool dildo. You can warm the dildo by placing submerging it in warm water for 30 minutes before use. To cool your dildo, try placing it in the freezer for 2 hours before use. For both techniques ensure to remove any motors or vibrators if possible.
  • Heating or Cooling the Dildo - As mentioned above, sometimes people like the sensation of a warm or cool dildo. You can warm the dildo by placing in a bath or tub of warm water for 30 minutes before use. To cool your dildo, try placing it in the freezer for 2 hours before use. For both techniques ensure to remove any motors or vibrators if possible.
  • Alternative Positions - Sometimes simply inserting the dildo from a different angle can mean the difference between a successful orgasm or a failure. Try getting on your knees, or squatting on your dildo, or even using a suction cup to attach it to the bathroom or shower wall.
  • Sharing with a Friend - If you enjoy a dildo, and you want to share it with a friend, then it can add a whole new dimension to sexual intercourse. Men need not fear the dildo; it can be their friend – dual insertion, vaginal and anal, or maybe the dildo takes over while the man takes a break. You can use it in any manner of ways – maybe try it, and find something that works in your relationship.
  • Be safe and have fun!

Maybe you’re looking to buy a dildo, and this is your first time. We’ve put together a buyers guide; you can read The Complete Dildo’s Buyers Guide.

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