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Guide to Advanced Bondage & BDSM Toys & Techniques

 

Advanced Guide to Bondage & BDSM

By now, you’re pretty comfortable with some of the BDSM techniques discussed in our beginner’s guide. You and your partner are ready to take things up a notch and really push the boundaries. Simple handcuffs, restraints, eye masks and feather ticklers are no longer enough. You want it harder, rougher, kinkier and more adventurous. As long as you keep the lines of communication open, relax, establish a safety word and keep having fun with it, there’s no reason why you can’t introduce some of these more advanced BDSM techniques.

Advanced BDSM Techniques In Detail

Exploring the world of BDSM with your partner (or several partners) is an exciting step. Limits are tested, boundaries are pushed back and you can step out of your comfort zone and into a whole new world. We’ll take you through some of the most popular advanced techniques, and the types of apparatus we sell that will help make your wildest fantasies come true.

Restraints

Whether you want to be tied up, or you love tying up your partner there are some incredibly versatile products available to help make your fantasies come true. Think outside the box, and go beyond the usual silk ties and fluffy handcuffs. Try a harness that fits over your entire mattress, allowing you to experience the fun of being tied to a four-poster bed without even having to own one. Or experiment with the ancient Japanese art of Shibari, where you use rope to twist, tie and contort your partner into myriad new positions.

Some of the most popular restraints for advanced users include:

Fantasy Web

Fantasy Web

Silk Rope Hog Tie Set

Silk Rope Hog Tie Set

Jute Bondage Rope

Jute Bondage Rope

Price

$63.95

$11.40

$15.95

Length

9 m

Width

0.75 cm

Material

Nylon/Satin

Polyester

Jute

Comparison of Top 3

This is a comparison of the top 3 advanced bdsm restraints.

PipeDream Fetish Fantasy - Fantasy Web

Designed to look like a giant spider’s web once it has been attached to the bed, this is a really versatile restraint system. The straps are made from woven nylon and it’s fitted with easy-to-use plastic adjusters, meaning it can fit any sized bed. There are four neoprene cuffs designed to loop around wrists and ankles and also to the web. You can remove the cuffs and place them anywhere you like on the web, allowing for a multitude of positions. The colour-coded straps make it really easy to install the web onto your bed and you don’t need two people to do it. The black web sits on the mattress and the red adjustable straps loop around the corners. Keep in mind that those with sensitive skin might find they are irritated by the neoprene cuffs, and it may cause some people to sweat quite a bit.

Fetish Fantasy Silk Rope Hogtie

This pre-tied restraint systems means you can use it quickly without fiddling around. Slip the cuff loops over your partner’s ankles and wrists to tie them up in any position you like. The traditional hogtie is wrists and ankles secured in front, however you could spice things up and tie them behind. The soft material is free from latex so it won’t irritate the skin, and the straps are wide enough to remain comfortable through a long session. It’s extremely sturdy, making it ideal for advanced users. There is 20cm of rope between the cuffs and it’s a great price for such a durable restraint.

Jute bondage rope

There’s something pretty exciting about using a traditional, coarse, tough rope to restrain your partner. It’s a great way to bring to life your wildest fantasies. At 9 metres long, it is ideal for those interested in the ancient Japanese art of Shibari bondage. You can twist it, tie it, loop it and experiment with all sorts of intricate knots and tying techniques. It’s abrasive and feels quite rough on the skin, which is often the whole point. The jute material holds knots well, doesn’t stretch, and will keep your partner in place as long as you like.

Swings

Swings or slings as they are also known are designed to suspended one partner or both off the ground. This aids in penetration, and forms a sort of bondage in itself. If you like the idea of deep penetration, low friction and you have a strong ceiling or door, then these are perfect for you.

Door Swing

Door Swing

Deluxe Fantasy Door Swing

Deluxe Fantasy Door Swing

Fantasy Swing

Fantasy Swing

Price

$43.71

$50.95

$189.95

Length

Width

Material

Acrylic

ABS/Metal/Vinyl

Nylon/Plastic

Comparison of Top 3

A comparison of the top 3 advanced bdsm swings.

Fetish Fantasy Door Swing

If you’ve always wanted to experience weightless sex but don’t have space (or money) for a swing, then this is a great option. All you need is a door and a willing partner. This model slides over any standard doorjamb and comes with a fully adjustable harness. It can hold up to 135 kilos of weight and is made from sturdy neoprene and durable webbing. The stirrups will hold your ankles, legs and feet in place while the two handles allow you to hold yourself in a variety of different positions. Two acrylic tubes will fit over any standard door so you can even take it on your travels.

Deluxe Fantasy Door Swing

The addition of a padded seat cradle takes this deluxe swing up a notch from the one mentioned above. It fits between the doorframe and the door, and is easily secured to the doorjamb by two metal tubes. You don’t need any tools to set it up, and it can easily be taken off for storage. Just drape the tubes over the door and then close it securely. Place your legs through the straps and adjust the harness to suit your height. Once your legs are in place, slide your arms through the handles and away you go. It can hold up to 135 kilos and the cross-stitched, heavy-duty nylon straps won’t cut into the skin.

Fetish Fantasy - Fantasy Swing

This is a swing for couples and individuals who mean business. It’s solid, sturdy and will allow you to experiment with as many different positions as you can think of. Find a place to install the eyelet bolt then it’s as easy as hooking and unhooking the swing as you please. You can leave it out on display, or stow it safely away to bring out on special occasions. Install it in either a wooden door frame or directly into an overhead beam. The harness itself is of the highest quality, designed for comfort and durability. There are padded supports for the buttocks and back, along with smaller padded stirrups for the legs and feet. It’s really easy to install and you only need a few tools that are found in most households.

Masks & Blindfolds

Taking away the sense of sight forces your other senses to come alive. You’ll smell, taste, feel and hear things more intensely, and it allows you to indulge in a number of different fantasy situations. Wear the mask and enjoy the sensation of feeling completely helpless, or put on the mask to enjoy the feeling of anonymity it provides. It’s up to you.

Spandex Open Mouth Hood

Spandex Open Mouth Hood

Extreme Malpractice Mask

Extreme Malpractice Mask

Spandex 3 Hole Hood

Spandex 3 Hole Hood

Price

$20.95

$52.80

$21.83

Length

Width

Material

Spandex

Latex

Nylon

Comparison of Top 3

This is a comparison of the top 3 advanced bdsm masks and blindfolds.

Fetish Fantasy Spandex Open Mouth Hood

This is a gender neutral hood, that goes on tight to restrict your vision, smell and hearing, while leaving the mouth open to awaken your sense of taste. The tight, comfortable, breathable hood will not slip once in place, and can easily be hand washed in gentle detergent after use. The feeling of anonymity, coupled with impaired vision and hearing makes this a welcome addition to any BDSM collection. It slips on easily and is designed to fit most sizes.

Fetish Fantasy Extreme Malpractice Mask

Bring your kinkiest “Doctors and Nurses” fantasy to life with this high-quality latex hood. The mouth is completely covered, except for a small hole to help with breathing. The eyes and nose are exposed, and the skin-tight hood is secured with a zipper at the back. It’s incredibly shiny, and we recommend sprinkling some talcum powder inside the hood to help you slip it on easier.

Fetish Fantasy Spandex Three-Hole Hood

Stretch this one over the head and secure with a zipper along the back. The lightweight fabric breathes well, and won’t leave you feeling overly sweaty or constricted. The mouth and eyes remain completely exposed, so it’s a great hood for those who enjoy having all their senses available. If it gets sticky, stained or wet then you can easily wash in warm, gentle detergent when finished and make sure you lay it out flat to dry.

Stimulators

Do you like the more advanced BDSM through the use of simulators - like to try and have an electric-shock orgasm? These toys are BDSM specific stimulators which reach the higher levels of BDSM sexual activity.

Extreme Shock Therapy Cock Strap

Extreme Shock Therapy Cock Strap

Advanced Clitoral Pump - Pink

Advanced Clitoral Pump - Pink

Electrastim Electro Butt Plug

Electrastim Electro Butt Plug

Price

$81.95

$32.95

$152.95

Length

Width

Material

Silicone/Metal/PVC

ABS (handle)/Soft TPR (sleeve with ticklers)

Comparison of Top 3

Comparison of the top 3 advanced BDSM stimulators.

PipeDream Fetish Fantasy Shock Therapy Cock Band

Here’s one just for the guys. It features two silicone bands, a larger one for placing around the balls and a smaller one for the shaft. The silicone is high quality, 100% bodysafe and completely hypoallergenic making it perfect for those with sensitive skin. Each band has a wire that can be attached to the small, handheld control unit. There is a range of settings you can choose from - switch between fast and slow shocks, and also vary the intensity from a soft tingle to a sharp, stabbing sensation. You can even invert the shocks, and allow them to be felt on the controller so that you can use it in numerous other places around the body and even as a massager.

Cal Exotics Advanced Clitoral Pump

This one is for the girls, and it’s a great way to simulate oral sex when you’re alone, or to use it while your partner concentrates their efforts elsewhere. Position the suction cup over your clitoris, and use the hand pump to create an incredibly tight vacuum seal. Then it’s just a matter of activating the rubber ticklers at the touch of a button, where they will spin, whir, vibrate and flicker over your most sensitive areas. Choose from three different levels of vibration until you find your favourite. The head is extremely flexible, so you can use it in a number of different positions and angles. The suction cup is made from TPR, which is free of latex and nasty phthalates, and the handle is a sturdy ABS plastic. It runs on 2 AAA batteries.

ElectraStim Luxury Metal Butt Plug

Everyone can enjoy the extreme anal stimulation offered by this luxuriously sleek and shiny butt plug. The marine-grade aluminium finish has a shiny mirror effect and a lovely heavy feeling in your hand. Rubber rings around the flared base allow you to get a good grip, even with lots of lube around. The plug is cool to the touch, but responds to friction and will heat up to body temperature quite quickly. You can play around with the temperatures, cooling it in ice water or using warm water to heat it up. Use it alone, or attach the electro stimulator to see what this little toy is capable of. The vibrating sensations range from a light tingle to a sharp "zap", and you can have it on continuous mode or switch it up to pulses. Make sure you clean it well after each use, and when switching between partners with warm soapy water or a quality toy cleaner.

Clamps

Applying a clamp to your most sensitive areas will cut off the circulation, and when you release the clamp the blood will come rushing back in and produce an incredibly euphoric feeling. Tickle and tease your nipples until they harden up, then apply the clamp and adjust until you’ve just pushed yourself past your comfort zone. Experience pleasure and pain at the same time, and work your way up to a tighter and tighter fit. Just remember not to leave clamps on for too long, and if you experience any sort of swelling, discolouration or bleeding they should be removed immediately.

Fetish Fantasy 10 Function Vibrating Nipple Clamps

Fetish Fantasy 10 Function Vibrating Nipple Clamps

Spinning Nipple Stimulators

Spinning Nipple Stimulators

Shock Therapy Nipple Clamps

Shock Therapy Nipple Clamps

Price

$47.95

$88.00

$57.40

Length

23 cm

Width

15 cm

Material

ABS Plastic - Metal - PVC

TPR/PVC

Metal/Plastic

Comparison of Top 3

Comparison of the top 3 advanced bdsm nipple clamps.

Fetish Fantasy Vibrating Nipple Clamps

There’s a rubber coating on these, but more experienced users might want to remove it and enjoy the feeling of cold metal against the skin. Each clamp is fitted with a powerful bullet vibrator and also comes with a little screw for adjusting the tightness. The clamps are attached to a remote via a 60cm cord, which is a really good length and allows either person to take control. Fire it up and enjoy 10 different settings, with a range of vibrations, pulses and speeds to choose from.

Fetish Fantasy Spinning Nipple Stimulators

Once the suction cups are applied to your breasts, a strong vacuum seal will have your nipples standing at attention. Then it’s a matter of turning on the motor and feeling the tickle of hundreds of little fibres inside, whirring around and teasing the nipple. Choose from 7 different spinning, massaging and tickling patterns, and you can even take it in the shower or spa where you’re at your most relaxed state. The TPR discs are free of latex and phthalates, and you can add lube to make the whole experience a lot more wet and wild.

Fetish Fantasy Shock Therapy Nipple Clamps

Electro-sex is a thrilling and literally shocking way to take your BDSM play to the next level. Once your nipples are hard, apply these clamps and tighten to your desired level. Each clamp should be attached to the control unit, which has three different buttons - an On/Off switch, a Slow/Fast switch and an In/Out Switch. The first one activates the device and is also a dial that allows you to control the intensity, the second controls the speed of the shocks and the third directs the shocks to either the nipples or to the control unit. The purpose of this In/Out switch is so you can use the device as a hand massager, sending shocks to the little oval button in the centre of the controller. Switch it to "In" mode for this action, or "Out" to send the shocks to the clamps.

Summary

You’re now ready to take your BDSM play to the next level with these sophisticated, quality toys. You obviously take your fetish play seriously, so we advise paying for a quality product from a trusted manufacturer to ensure you get the most life out of your toy. PipeDream, California Exotics and Doc Johnson are just three of our favourites, but you can see many more by browsing the site or getting in touch to ask our advice. You get what you pay for, and in order to make sure your products last a long time you should always clean and store them carefully. Splashing out a little bit extra means you are less likely to experience a breakage halfway through a session. Most importantly, remember to have fun exploring your boundaries and limits either alone or with someone you trust.

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