How to use a Butt Plug


How to use a butt plug

In this guide we provide a walk-through guide on how to use a butt plug.

Butt plugs come in a wide variety of shapes, sizes and materials. The top end of the butt plug ranges are typically made from a medical grade silicone, metal or glass. The lower end of the price range is usually made from rubber or a hard plastic. Fortunately at Frisky we only stock the better quality butt plugs, so choice here is made much easier.

So, if you’re on this web page, then you’re probably wondering how do you use a butt plug!? - the easiest way to explain and answer this question is to provide a step by step guide on the usual ways to use a butt plug.

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Step-By-Step Guide to Using a Butt Plug

Read our step-by-step guide on how to use a butt plug.

  1. Preparation - Before engaging in anal play you need to make sure that the toy you are going to be using is clean, as hygiene should be your priority at all times. Also, check that your toy is free from imperfections that could cause you harm because this type of injury is very difficult to treat. If you are using a glass toy, ensure that it remains smooth and clear of scratches. Wash your toy in warm soapy water, and use a good anti-bacterial wash. Because the anal cavity has no natural stopping point, unlike the vagina, toys can be lost inside if the correct kind of flared base toy is not used. Always use a flared base butt plug or toy. Some of the anal chains, for instance, have a ring at the end that you can hold on to, making removal easy.
  2. Pre-Play - If your toy is the vibrating variety, you need to ensure that the batteries have enough charge left in them, or that you have fresh batteries on hand should the need arise. There is nothing worse than the batteries fading when you are part way through. Make sure you have a towel and some lubricant at hand.
  3. Safeword - as with all anal play it is important to have a safeword if you are using a toy with a partner. This word would then immediately stop the play, and is a way to make sure both partners are on the same page with the importance of safety and health. This word might be as simple as stop, or something more discreet.
  4. Pre-Insertion - Lubricant, lubricant, lubricant. The most important thing you can do with your toy from this point forward is to ensure that it is sufficiently lubricated. We continually hear of people being injured during rough anal sex or from non-lubricated toys. The anus does not produce a natural lubricant, so you need to add one. Otherwise, it will be extremely painful, and might cause tears, bleeding or chafe the sphincter.
  5. Size matters - If you are new to anal penetration then don’t let anyone convince you that you can handle a large toy. Choose a beginner size if you are new, if you have experience then select a size you know, you can accommodate. If it feels tight during insertion, it is best to downgrade in size and try again.
  6. Insertion time - Always insert the toy yourself, never let someone else insert it for you. Do not be pressured into rushing this process as this is when damage occurs. We advise you to take your time, and never be shy in backing off if things you are feeling pain.
  7. Find a comfortable position - Once inserted, find a comfortable position, and either rock the toy, hold it in place or if you have a vibrating butt plug, turn the vibration function on.
  8. Cleaning and Storage - Always clean your toys once you have finished your anal session. Like in the first step, use warm soapy water and follow with an anti-bacterial cleaner. Silicone butt plugs are best stored in a cotton bag, or satchel to prevent contact with other silicone toys.

Other Ways to Enjoy Your Butt Plug

Why limit yourself to only one size, or one way to use the butt plug – we have some other fun ideas on how you can use your butt plug!

  • Incremental Size Increase - Many people who purchase butt plugs, do not limit themselves to just one, they have an entire collection, with a variety of sizes, shapes, colours and materials. Some of the most exciting experiences you will have will be with an anal chain that has beads of incremental size increase for the length of the chain - start small, then remove and insert again to the next size up. Each new size increases the pleasure.
  • Vibrating - You can either buy a new vibrating butt plug or buy a vibrating cock ring and put it on the base. A vibrating butt plug takes prostate stimulation to a whole new level. You will have an orgasm that you will never forget. Try massaging the prostate gently, it does not need to be rough or hard. Caress it gently and enjoy.
  • Vaginal? - There is no hard and fast rule saying a butt plug can only be used for anal penetration. Some women use butt plugs as g-spot ticklers. The only thing you need to make sure of is that the toy is very clean, before using in the vagina, especially if previously used in the anus.
  • Loud and proud - Why hide your butt plug collection in the drawer? Why not put them on display, on a shelf. Warning - this is for very risqué people, who do not mind showcasing their sex toys!
  • Animal tail plug - This kind of plug can be but is not restricted to a regular shaped butt plug, with a tail made from feathers, fur or material that then makes the wearer look like they have a tail.
  • Be safe - Have fun!

If you have never tried anal sex then this whole new adventure into the world of exploration is awaiting your attention. Take care and have a care with your next anal fun time!


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