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What to Expect from a BDSM Party

swingersIf you are considering attending a BDSM party you probably already have an understanding of what BDSM play involves. (If you don’t you should probably do some research and private play before you attend your first play party.) Here are some things to expect and some common rules to follow at a BDSM party.

Play parties are typically held in private homes or BDSM clubs. Club parties generally have a stricter dress code but more equipment than private parties. People who host parties in their homes will have a small selection of BDSM equipment. You can expect to find any combination of cages, racks, stocks, swings and spanking benches in your host’s dungeon. And don’t let the term ‘dungeon’ scare you away! Players use that term for the area of the house where the BDSM equipment is located. The dungeon master is the person assigned with making sure all of the party rules are followed. Some parties may have small ‘play places’ with equipment set up around the house instead of in one central dungeon location. Play places are great for players who don’t enjoy having a large audience.

At a private play party you can expect to spend a significant amount of time socializing before any BDSM play begins. Play parties are more of a social event than a sexual encounter. In fact most parties have a no penetration rule. You aren’t at the party for sex. You’re there to enjoy your BDSM hobby with friends who share the interest.

It is very rare for a BDSM play party to include drugs or alcohol. A fulfilling BDSM experience is dependent on all participants having clear heads and giving consent to participate in the activities. Drugs and alcohol lowers inhibitions and can cause players to agree to play they would not normally be comfortable with. Inebriated players are also much more likely to get carried away and overstep the agreed upon rules of the scene. For everyone’s safety all club parties and most private parties are dry.

Now that you know what to expect at the party, here are some rules to follow to ensure you are invited back.

  1. Never interrupt other player’s scenes. If you have a question wait until the scene ends. If you’re concerned that a player is taking a scene too far ask the dungeon master to check them out.
  2. Bring your own toys to the party. If someone offers you one their toys you are free to use it but never touch another players toys without being offered them first. We have a huge range of BDSM toys here
  3. NEVER approach a submissive without first receiving permission from their dominant. This is probably the worst mistake you could make at a play party and is almost a guarantee that you won’t be invited back.
  4. If you intend to sit on any piece of furniture while nude bring a towel to put between you and your hosts couch.
  5. Relax and have fun! Remember you are there to ‘play’ and ‘party’!
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