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Turn those 50 Shades Fantasies into a Reality

degradation-play-1086882-TwoByOneEver since the 50 Shades trilogy was released, women all over have been feeling more open to exploring some of their naughtier fantasies. Whether the books brought long hidden fantasies to the surface, or introduced readers to something entirely new, bondage gear has been flying off the shelves of sex shops.

The only problem is that many women are unsure where to start. Though deliciously detailed, the books were not instructional, and that can lead to some overzealous purchases that will end up unused, or used incorrectly and without all the pleasure the books described.

Where to Start

First off it's important to have a willing partner. If he's not willing to swing a paddle then there isn't much point in buying one. Find out how far he's willing to go with a frank discussion, and don't push him into more than he's comfortable with.

A good place to start is with a blindfold and some restraints. Make sure that they are comfortable, and though something ultra kinky and daring may be tempting, try to stick with something a little tamer for the first time. Pick a blindfold like the James Deen Blind fold Black and Blue Sensation and pair it with the James Deen Wrist Cuffs Black and Blue Bound. These soft and adjustable mask and cuffs are perfect for either a man or a woman to wear, giving him a turn to be cuffed and blinded as well.

Slowly add some toys to the bedroom, working up to the kinkier items. A good toy to begin with is a feather tickler like the Lelo Tantra Purple whose thick bushy tail of feathers will feel amazing trailed down a blindfolded lover's body. Get a little kinkier with some toys made for punishment with a paddle like the James Deen Paddle Black and Blue Switch. Bring it down and alternate between smacks with the paddle, and caresses with the soft feather tickler.

For those that want to dive in full swing there are plenty of starter kits available that will come with everything needed for a good time. The Fetish Fantasy Purple Cheetah Bondage Kit { Click here}comes with a velvet mask, wrist and ankle cuffs, paddle, collar, and even a leash; all in a purple cheetah print. Other kits are available, all at various price ranges, making it easy for couples to find the right level of fetish for them.

Remember that it's important to go slowly and make sure that both partners are completely at ease. That means no surprise gifts of a whip when even simple bondage hasn't entered the relationship before. Shop for new toys together, and don't be afraid to try something new together as a couple.

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