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How to Use a Strap-on for Women

So you've taken the plunge and gotten a strap-on, but you're not quite sure how to go about using it. After all as women we're not used to having something hanging down there, much less putting it to good use. But with a few simple tips using a strap-on to full effect is easy. Put on the harness

  • Put on your harness according to the instructions that came with it. Adjust any straps so the harness fits snugly; too loose and the dildo will hang between your legs, plus you'll have minimal control. Avoid pulling the straps too tightly though as you'll be less likely to enjoy yourself if your harness is rubbing and pinching you. Aim for the harness to sit slightly below the waist with the dildo over your pubic bone.

Get acquainted with your new member.

  • You may feel silly walking around the house with a large penis sticking out, but you'll never be able to pull off wearing a strap on unless you are comfortable and confident with it. Use some alone time with the harness to get used to the weight of the dildo and how your movements affect where it goes.
  • If your harness has a place for a bullet vibrator place one inside and masturbate with the harness on. Try stroking the dildo and seeing what turns you on as for some a large part of strap-on play is visual.
  • Try watching some strap-on porn to get inspired and see how other couples are using them, but remember that what works on screen may not necessarily be what works in the bedroom.

Lube up

  • Add some lubrication to the entire length of the dildo. Then add some more. There really can't be too much, and you definitely want to avoid any unwanted friction that could put a quick end to your strap-on play.
  • Be a doll and lube up your lover too, she'll definitely appreciate it.

Go slowly

  • When you're ready to begin remember to go slowly and work your way up to faster speeds.
  • When starting out try for some basic positions and work your way up to the more difficult, rockstar ones.
  • A traditional missionary position is a good way to start and has the added benefit of being able to make love face to face with your partner
  • Doggie style positions are easy with a strap-on. Try bending your lover over the bed and entering her from behind, or place her on all fours and kneel behind her.
  • Any blow job position will work, and though you won't really feel anything the visual is super hot.
  • Mix up the motion. Try pumping straight in and out then alternate with circling your hips. Feel free to experiment and listen to what your lover likes.

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