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Beginners Guide to BDSM Toys

japanese rope artTake your fun bedroom adventures to the next level Many people are interested in BDSM, but are hesitant to broach the subject with their lovers for fear that their lovers will think of them as odd or strange, or even weird for having such thoughts. The truth is that BDSM is becoming less taboo, and many people are beginning to explore their BDSM fetishes through acts like spanking or being spanked, clamping the nipples, wearing blindfolds, being gagged, or being restrained. Role playing can also be a part of BDSM fun, including taking on the role of the dominant partner and being “in charge”, or being the yielding, submissive partner, who submits to the dominant partner’s will.

Why BDSM? BDSM is simply a way that lovers can explore the different erotic sensations that bondage, restraint, and so forth, can bring. For example, it can be quite exciting to be tied up with a full bed restraint system as your lover ravages you and you are “powerless” to stop him or her. When the body is fully aroused, a spanking or rough sex can be quite erotic. BDSM can be exciting and fun, taking you on an emotional rollercoaster and helping to forge a tighter bond with your partner. Experimenting with light bondage can be a good way to enhance a tired relationship that is growing stale.

BDSM Community Motto

Those in the BDSM community have a motto that permeates all acts of BDSM, and that is “safe, sane, and consensual”. BDSM only looks intimidating. The truth is that people who enjoy BDSM communicate beforehand about what they want to experience. The most important thing to remember if you and your lover are interested in BDSM is that if you try it and one of you do not enjoy it, you can always have the option of saying no, either during the act or to future acts.

Handcuffs and/or Ankle Cuffs

When you are cuffed, you are under the complete control of your lover. This feeling of helplessness can be quite a turn-on. Likewise, having complete control over the sexual arousal of your lover can also be fun, which is why being the aggressor, and tying your lover up or handcuffing your lover adds a new level of excitement to the bedroom.

Restraints and Restraint Systems

One way to begin experimenting with restraints is with simple rope or even silk scarves. Once you are comfortable with restraints, you can buy any number of different restraint systems, including under bed restraints to turn your bedroom into a dungeon if you so desire.

Paddles and Whips

Spanking can be enjoyable, and usually involves spanking the buttocks or the thighs. Experiment with using a paddle and a whip to find the right sensation for your lover.

Clamps

Nipple clamps. Nipple clamps don’t just look cool, they are also great for stimulating the nipples, hands free. You don’t have to only use clamps on your nipples, though. There are also clamps that can be used anywhere on the body.

Ball Gags

The ball gag can be a lot of fun, and increases the sense of helplessness during BDSM play. The ball gag is simply a ball attached to tethers that is fastened around the neck and keeps your “prisoner” from escaping.

Cock Cages

The cock cage is a type of adult toy that enclosed the penis and prohibits the sexual activities that the wearer can perform. Some cages also enclose the testicles, and some separate or divide the testicles.

Adding to Your Toy Box

These are just a few of the fun toys that are awaiting your BDSM toy chest. As you explore BDSM and become more comfortable with the prospect of bondage and fetish play, you are bound to find other toys that you love and that give you a lot of pleasure.

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