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50 Shades Of Kinky

degradation-play-1086882-TwoByOneWhen the 50 Shades series, by E.L. James was published it quickly became the must-read book for women. Ladies who had never envisioned themselves tied up, much less being spanked and whipped were having difficulty putting it down. The 50 Shades series, while by no means instructional, introduced many women to the idea of introducing bondage and fetish play into the bedroom.

The only problem is that it's taken husbands and boyfriends, ignorant of the 50 Shades craze, a while to catch up. And some overzealous fetish purchases by enthusiastic girlfriends and wives may be a bit overwhelming. Start with a frank discussion to regarding boundaries for both; there's no sense in buying a whip if he's not willing to swing it. It might even be a good idea to have him read the 50 Shades trilogy himself!

Start Slowly

It's best to introduce the idea of bondage and fetish play to a partner slowly and gently, making sure that they are comfortable at each step. Try starting out with a blindfold and if you are both  comfortable then turn it up a notch with adding  restraints . This can be a great time to explore different submissive and dominant roles, taking turns being restrained. If that's not his thing he may get a kick out of having his partner restrained and unable to move when he starts to play with a soft feather tickler like the purple Touche Tickler {click here}. It's got a soft tail that feels amazing when stroked over the body to tease and soothe.

Adding Some More Toys

When a tickler and restraints aren't enough it's time to add something kinkier to the toy box. A paddle like the James Deen Paddle is a great way to add something with a bit of a bite to playtime. With a soft smack on a cushioned area like the buttocks or the back of the thigh, endorphins are raised to the surface and it can feel incredible. Alternate smacks from a paddle or flogger with a gentle caress from a tickler and the lucky recipient will be begging for more.

All in One

For those that don't want to take it so slowly, a starter kit like the Book Smart Shades Edition (click here) will help couples start off with a set of Kegel balls, some beaded nipple clips, a small sized whip and some adjustable restraints. And best of all it comes packaged in a case that looks just like a hardcover book, so all the bondage gear can be hidden away in plain view.

Remember to respect a partners limits and never take it further than they are willing. Build trust and shop for new toys together online at a site like sextoys247.net.au to find new toys and fetish gear that is comfortable for both partners. With all that in mind, playing with some bondage and fetish fun will be as hot and fun as it was in the books.

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